Helium miner relayed issues

I have watched countless videos on fixing this, but my miner seems to go in and out of relayed status at random. I will have it fixed, and when I change nothing, it suddenly goes back into relay. It is a mntd goldspot. Sometimes it takes 5 days to update after I open the port. Then after a few days it drops back into relay. Anybody else have these issues?
Thanks

same here